Dear Leila,
For as long as I can remember, I’ve wanted to be known as the “Godfather.” For years, “Godfather” meant being recognized for my social and recruiting efforts as a brother of Pi Kappa Alpha (PIKE) at Penn State. There was no greater honor than a freshman pledge asking, “Is Janiec the Godfather?” After growing up and getting my priorities in order, imaginary frat titles lost the personal importance that they once had.
However, the significance of the Godfather title recently re-emerged for me. When your Mommy and Daddy, Jessi and Pete, asked your favorite Uncle Kevin to be your Godparent, the honor of Godfather took on new meaning. I promise to fully embrace my role as your dedicated supporter and trusted guide. Your baptism today commences your faithful journey and our special relationship, and I’m grateful to be part of it all.
On the day of your baptism, I feel compelled to kick off my Godparent duties with three tokens of life advice:
1. Have fun- This should be easy. Your parents find the fun in everything. In your house, music means dancing, trips are a constant, and most ordinary evenings turn into game nights. There will always be things to celebrate and people to celebrate with. In getting to know you the past 8 months, I’ve seen that you’re no different. You’re an adorable little spark plug that lights up every room. There’s never a shortage of squeaking, smiling, banging your hands, stomping your feet, flailing wildly, playing with your toys, and dancing with mommy and daddy. I encourage you to always find the fun in everything you do.
2. Be you- Watching you and Charlie grow up next to each other, you each have your own very unique personalities. You’re a wrecking ball of energy and bring laughter to everyone around you. As you grow up and develop your identity, always be the fullest version of you that you can be.
3. Your “Who” matters most- You’re lucky to have so many friends and family that love you and are here for you. You’ve got the best parents and grandparents anyone could ask for. As you grow up, nothing is more important than “who” you surround yourself with. You’re off to a good start. Be good to these people, and you’ll do just fine.
Leila, I’m proud of you, and I’m honored to be your Godparent. I can’t wait to see you grow up and become best friends with your cousin, Charlie. I’ll be right here for you along the way.
Happy Baptism,
Your Godfather, Uncle Kev
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