Winter 2026: Bless this mess

This winter, I see little messes everywhere. Each day, Jordan and I wake up before 6am to a quiet, peaceful, relatively clean path to the kitchen. We complete a workout, brew the coffee, unload the dishwasher,  make breakfast, and enjoy the final moments of a clear countertop, empty sink, and crumb-less floor.  But then Jack comes down. And then Charlie. AndContinue reading “Winter 2026: Bless this mess”

Fall 2025: A season of sports

On one hand, it’s been a brutal sports season. Penn State Football is experiencing its most disappointing stretch in recent memory. The Phillies were bounced from the playoffs in what felt like a nightmare. And when I first began writing this reflection, the Eagles had just dropped two straight and looked miles away from theirContinue reading “Fall 2025: A season of sports”

Summer 2025: A beautiful blur

Someone recently asked me, “What were you up to this summer?” And I froze. I knew there wasn’t a dull moment all season, but I couldn’t sum it up in a headline moment or a neat little answer. It all just felt like a busy blur.  I paused and asked myself out loud, “Huh…what haveContinue reading “Summer 2025: A beautiful blur”

Spring 2025: Planting seeds

They say April showers bring May flowers. They don’t mention the weeds. Or the overgrown to-do list. Or the feeling of being in over your head with one big yard, two working parents, and three small kids. This spring hit harder than I expected. Now that we’re fully settled into our home after last year’sContinue reading “Spring 2025: Planting seeds”

Winter 2025: When will we be back?

“Daddy, will the Eagles have a parade again next year?!” Jack excitedly asked as I lifted him off of my shoulders.  The buses had just passed City Hall, rolling toward the Art Museum. The deafening chants of “E-A-G-L-E-S” had momentarily quieted, and the celebration was winding down. “I don’t know, bud,” I admitted. “I don’tContinue reading “Winter 2025: When will we be back?”

December 2024: Seasons of Life

This is my 112th reflection:  52 Weekly Reflections in 2019 followed by 60 Monthly reflections since January 2020.  To put it into perspective, I started writing these when Charlie was born.  Now she’s one of my most loyal readers.    While this hobby has taken up a lot of time and energy, I’m so gladContinue reading “December 2024: Seasons of Life”

November 2024: Mr. Derwin

Some kids idolize Saquon Barkley.  For others, that person is Taylor Swift.  For many, it’s Spidey or Batman. This year, my 4-year old son’s hero was Mr. Derwin – the builder who did our home renovation. Now, whenever Jack builds with his Magnatiles, tinkers with his tools, or does “hard work, yard work” he proudlyContinue reading “November 2024: Mr. Derwin”

October 2024: Room and Board

We just completed a 6-month home renovation.  But I’m not writing this post to share before and after pictures of the kitchen remodel.  This reflection is about moving our family of 5 (+2 cats) into my parents’ house…and living there from April to October. This is an apology for cluttering their rooms, intruding on theirContinue reading “October 2024: Room and Board”