17: Let’s keep building

Growing up, my role models were all builders. My Pop-Pop built houses for a living and built a pond, tennis court, and many other things for fun. My Dad started building houses with Pop-Pop, and then built out his own real estate development company. My father-in-law built parks, ball fields, and rec centers throughout hisContinue reading “17: Let’s keep building”

16: Celebrating the CFP®️

On Wednesday night, I learned that I successfully passed the CFP®️ exam. Since finding out, I’ve felt a combination of relief, joy, gratitude, excitement and pride. Essentially, I imagine I had the same feeling as Tiger when his final putt dropped. Typically I would try to reflect on the year long process and the lessonsContinue reading “16: Celebrating the CFP®️”

15: “Shout outs” and “Wins of the Week”

My work team recently started a new ritual to kick off and close out our weekly staff meetings. We begin each meeting with a rapid fire round table of “Shout outs,” and end the meeting with our “Wins of the Week.” The ritual is intended to foster an environment of gratitude, positivity, and pride. IContinue reading “15: “Shout outs” and “Wins of the Week””

13: A weekend with the boys

There are a few things I need to survive. I need food, water, and shelter. I need a loving family. I need the occasional boys’ weekend. There’s something special about a weekend in which ordinarily successful businessmen become the village idiots. There’s something refreshing when your most stressful decision is Kentucky vs. Wofford. There’s somethingContinue reading “13: A weekend with the boys”

11: Choosing discipline over disappointment

You probably have an upcoming personal goal. You might even have an action plan defining your process to achieve that goal. Yet, without discipline, we know that our action plans won’t go any further than the paper they are written on.  We know that our success and failure will ultimately depend on the series of difficultContinue reading “11: Choosing discipline over disappointment”

10: New decade, same Jessi

My big sister turned 30 on Friday.   Over the years, I’ve seen her life change, her roles change, and her circumstances change. But through it all, “Messi Jessi” is still the same ole “Messi Jessi.”   For context, it’s important to know who Jessi’s always been. Jessi was the sister who routinely casted herContinue reading “10: New decade, same Jessi”