Category Archives: The Weekly Reflection (2019)

There aren’t many things as exciting as when all of your friends and family begin checking into the hotel for the big weekend. There aren’t many moments as special as the final minutes spent with your fellow groomsmen before the ceremony. There aren’t many words as moving as an officiant’s speech, an exchange of vows,Continue reading “23: Wedding Season”

I spent last week at work delivering Mid Year performance reviews for the advisors on my team. The review’s objective is to reflect on first half accomplishments, analyze what’s going well and what’s not going well, provide clarity on progress relative to the goals set at the beginning of the year, and establish an urgentContinue reading “22: Mid Year Review”

In our daily grind, we set ambitious goals. We fear failure. We hate losing. We stress about meeting expectations. We make sacrifices. We burn ourselves out. Then, we get our results. After briefly acknowledging the results, we move on, and we repeat the process all over again. Something seems to be missing from this neverContinue reading “21: Celebrate the wins”

It’s hard to believe it’s Jordan’s first Mother’s Day. In Charlie’s first six months, the little bear has brought Jordan more joy than anything has in the previous 28 years. I had no doubt Jordan would be a good mother, but I’m still awed by how great she actually is. The truth is, she learnedContinue reading “20: Mother’s Day”

Dear Jordo, Your 27th year will be historically tough to beat. You crushed the game this year as a wife, mother, sister, daughter, friend, and sales woman. But I know you don’t like the spotlight, so I’ll keep it short. Im proud of you, I’m grateful for you, and I’m lucky to have you. IContinue reading “19: Cinco de Jordo (Austria style)”

It doesn’t matter where it is, when it is, or what it is. It doesn’t matter if it’s a Nashville bachelor party, wedding dance floor, summer barbecue, late night conversation with friends by a fire pit, playtime with Charlie, breakfast with Jordan, happy hour on the beach, weekly reflection, client appointment, lunch with a colleague,Continue reading “18: Defining your super power”

Growing up, my role models were all builders. My Pop-Pop built houses for a living and built a pond, tennis court, and many other things for fun. My Dad started building houses with Pop-Pop, and then built out his own real estate development company. My father-in-law built parks, ball fields, and rec centers throughout hisContinue reading “17: Let’s keep building”

On Wednesday night, I learned that I successfully passed the CFP®️ exam. Since finding out, I’ve felt a combination of relief, joy, gratitude, excitement and pride. Essentially, I imagine I had the same feeling as Tiger when his final putt dropped. Typically I would try to reflect on the year long process and the lessonsContinue reading “16: Celebrating the CFP®️”

My work team recently started a new ritual to kick off and close out our weekly staff meetings. We begin each meeting with a rapid fire round table of “Shout outs,” and end the meeting with our “Wins of the Week.” The ritual is intended to foster an environment of gratitude, positivity, and pride. IContinue reading “15: “Shout outs” and “Wins of the Week””

There’s a quote that sits on the window sill above our kitchen sink. It says, “Remember what and who matter most. Making a life is more important than making a living.” I always liked the reminder. Nowadays, I sometimes need the reminder. Charlie started Daycare two weeks ago, and became sick within a few days.Continue reading “14: Sick days”