7: My week with Charlie

Jordan’s big return to work this week included a 3 day Sales Conference in Orlando, which left Charlotte under the supervision of an under qualified caretaker. Me.  

Although we traveled down to the resort together as a family, Jordan’s conference itinerary occupied her from early morning to late at night, which left me in charge of the parenting.  After spending the past 3 months with “Mom” Brady on maternity leave, our little Charlie Bear was all but destined for a step down in quality.

However, in my new role as Dad, I had no other choice but to take on the challenge. If my goal is to eventually make it to the “Family Man Hall of Fame,” my parental leave provided me the opportunity to start my conquest, whether I was ready or not.

While I approached the week with nervous anticipation,  I reminded myself of an important lesson: We’re rarely fully qualified to take on the important challenges that we face.  That can’t hold us back from diving in and giving our best effort.

As a matter of fact, it’s often been the moments spent outside of my comfort zone that have provided the most growth and advancement towards my personal goals and aspirations.  The only real way to be experienced is to get experience.  Spending the week with Charlie was quite an experience. 

So as I reflect on my performance this week:

Was I a masterful parent? Not even close. 

Did I make a lot of mistakes? Yes, but don’t tell Mom. 

Did Charlie survive and have lots of fun? She sure did.

Am I a much better Dad than I was last week? Absolutely. 

Now, I’ll turn the challenge back to you.  Ask yourself, What’s that next step that you want to take in your life or career that you’re not quite qualified for?  What’s holding you back from giving it a shot and stepping out of your comfort zone? 

I encourage you to take the leap, learn along the way, and see how much you grow.  You probably won’t regret it.  I know I don’t.